A = Affect
Mental & Emotional Wellness
A of BASICS is the domain dedicated to wellness of the mind. This consists of mental, emotional and psychological wellness. A also stand for Assets which is financial wellness.
The Forces that Oppose Wellness of Affect
The four horseman of the burnout apocalypse are very destructive to mental, psychological and emotional wellness.
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The Horseman of the Perfectionist
At least one study has measured perfectionism in a population of health professional students (medical, dental, pharmacy and nursing) and notes it to be prevalent, and, not surprisingly, highly correlated with symptoms of psychological distress.
There is a strong association generally between perfectionism and increased risk for depression, anxiety, obsessive compulsive symptoms, and even suicide.4
The perfectionist horseman of the burnout apocalypse does most of his work by setting expectations that result in perfection. These expectations are often unrealistic. This horseman works in many ways:
- Filtering: Perfectionists tend to select certain details they will focus upon — usually negative ones. Expecting perfection, they tend to discount the impact of positive feedback. The result can be an obsessive and upsetting preoccupation with criticism that is not balanced by the appreciation of compliments or a job well done.
- Mind reading: The perfectionist, especially one who is socially prescribed, will think he or she knows what others are thinking of them. And all too often they will believe that others are judging them harshly.
The perfectionist horseman often drives physicians to place unrealistic demands upon themselves. This is behind the feeling that no mistake is acceptable. This horseman also leads to physicians imposing these same impossible expectations onto others. This horseman also drive the common physician perception that others expect them to be perfect. The expectation that others expect perfection is highly associated with distress.
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The Horseman of the Superhero
The superhero horseman of the burnout apocalypse makes physcians feel that they can meet all the unrealistic expectations set by the perfectionist horseman.
Some common manifestations of the superhero include…
- Over confidence: This is one manifestation of the Superhero trait. The superhero trait often causes doctors to have the sense that they are in greater control of situations than they realistically are. So, when outcomes don’t match expectations, the tendency is to blame oneself. Anger, frustration and guilt are common feelings that result.
- Over responsibility: The superhero trait also causes doctors to falsely assume that their role is to stamp out disease, suffering and death.
- Over inflated ego: The superhero trait also causes doctors to often assume that they are is indispensable to patients and profession. It also leads to the assumption that no patient could ever be angry with you, or leave your practice.
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The Horseman of the Lone Ranger
The Lone Ranger horseman of the burnout apocalypse drives many physicians to work alone, disconnect from others, and have a self-centered viewpoint.
It manifests in many ways, including:
- All or nothing approach: The Lone Ranger horseman drives a form of self-centered thinking that often leads to a false dichotomy mindset. This mindset causes people to see only two ways about anything… Their way or the wrong way. All or nothing thinkers will, of necessity, face frustration trying to navigate a world of uncertainty and shades of gray.
- Isolation during stress and/or uncertainty: The Lone Ranger horseman often drives us to disconnect from others during times of stress and uncertainty. This can be very destructive since the best solution to uncertainty and stress is to connect with others for partnership and support.
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The Horseman of the Workaholic
The Workaholic horseman of the burnout apocalypse drives the feeling that the impossible expectations set by the perfectionist can be achieved with hard work. This horseman says that not meeting an expectation only happened because of lack of hard work. Physician’s often project this mindset on themselves and others. They also feel that other’s feel the same way about them.
A really dangerous expression of this trait is catastrophizing.
Catastrophizing: This involves the magnification of negative outcomes coupled with the sense that they can be prevented or managed with hard work.
The following are some tools to combat the four horseman of the burnout apocalypse.
BASICS Ideas for Wellness of Affect
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Tool: The principle of option 3
Ask if you are thinking in terms of a false dichotomy.
- Do you falsely think their are only two options? Look for options that combine both option 1 and option 2 (i.e. 1 and 2 not 1 or 2).
Even worse, is your false dichotomy using extremes (an extreme false dichotomy)?
- Are you thinking in “all or nothing” terms?
- Look for words that suggest absolutes, like “always” or “never.”
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Tool: The Reality Check
Am I confusing a rare occurrence with a probability? This is a reality check.
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Tool: World is not Ending
Am I assuming the worst possible outcome? This is not the same as a rational consideration of a worst case scenario when charting a course of action.
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Tool: Excuse Expectations
- Am I blaming myself for something that was beyond my control? The benefit of accurate hindsight is helpful here.
- Look to see if the expectation was realistic, supported and clear. Then put your energy into improving things that you can actually control to try and make the expectation clear, realistic and supported for the future. Learn from the past, focus on the future. Use your energy to improve the future based on what you learned from a negative event.
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Tool: Imperfect hindsight
What would have happened if I had handled the situation differently?
Especially consider alternatives less shaped by perfectionism.
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Tool: Consult your future self
Ask yourself the following questions
What difference will this make in a week, a year, or 10 years?
Will anyone really judge me harshly in the future?
I like to think of it as consulting your future self
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Tool: Stepdown not ICU
- Consider alternatives to the perfection based approach. Can standards of perfection for oneself or others be “downgraded” to just plain excellent? Or good?
- How would someone else think about the same situation?
- Challenge your value system. Open your mind and list alternatives. Then choose a new, more helpful way of thinking about the situation.
More Ideas & Interventions for achieving Wellness of Affect
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Tool: The Wishka Jar
The Wishka Jar is a tool that Christian Wishka provided to us.