S = Spiritual
Wellness of the Spirit

Wellness of the Spirit can encompass many things. Many think of religion and faith, when they hear the term “Spiritual wellness” which makes sense, religion and faith are part of spiritual wellness for those who are religious.
It is important to understand that religion and faith are not the only components of this spiritual wellness.
Spiritual Wellness centers around the elements that humans need to keep their spirit strong. The human spirit drives our engagement, perseverance, resilience, fight and fulfillment. When “Wellness of the Spirit” becomes impaired we lose the will to fight and we stop caring.
Below explores the components of spiritual wellness.
Spirit Needs
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What the Spirit Needs
The human spirit needs several things in order to be well.
These can be remembered by SIC4 Spirit (SIC for Spirit). These are listed in the tabs below.
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S = Safety & Security
In order to be well, the spirit needs Safety & Security. This need drives our need for trust and respect.
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I = Identity
The spirit needs Identity. Our values, beliefs, convictions, and self image are related to this need.
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C1 = Choice
This is Choice & Control. The spirit needs these for wellness.
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C2 = Certainty
The spirit needs a lot of certainty.
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C3 = Connection
The spirit needs connection. This drives the need to belong and be together.
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C4 = Contribution
The spirit needs to be able to contribute.
Spirit Threats
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Threats to Our Spirit
Behaviors that increase any of the above SIC4 generally bring us pleasure & behaviors that decrease them generally bring us pain. These would be threats to Safety/Security, Identity, Choice (free choice), Certainty, Connection and Contribution.
Sometimes these elements interact in surprising ways often following and dynamic hierarchy of importance. For example, sometimes people do things that directly threaten then need for safety and security, like parachute, rock climb, race cars, which does not make sense. It only makes sense when you realize that these behaviors are often driven by the need for accomplishment (driven by need to contribute), the need to experience (driven by the need for certainty), and the need for identity.
In reality we also need balance. We do need a little of the opposite of the SIC4 needs. We need a little insecurity, we need a little identity confusion, and we need some uncertainty. Sometimes we need to have choices made for us, sometimes we need to disconnect and sometimes we need to be non-contributors. It is important to remember that these things should only be in very small amounts relative to the SIC4 needs.
Some things are special threats to spirit, because they threaten multiple elements of SIC4 at the same time, these special threats are:
- Loss of control (potentially decreases free choice, safety & security, and certainty)
- Change (potentially decreases free choice, safety & security, and certainty)
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Special Threat 1: Loss of Control
Loss of control (potentially decreases free choice, safety & security, and certainty)
- In general doctors like to be in control. Doctors diagnose and treat for a living. Both diagnosis and treatment require control. During the process of diagnosis and treatment, the doctor does not make suggestions, he or she gives orders. Orders for tests and orders for treatment. Doctors are used to being in control.
- In reality, doctors do not have as much control as they think they do. Often doctors don’t have the same level of control of their life outside of work, and they really don’t have complete control over their life at work. Lawyers, administrators, insurance companies and regulations constantly challenges a doctors ability to have complete control. These entities are always trying to gain control of healthcare which directly threatens the doctors ability to have complete control.
- Doctors often respond to the threat of this loss of control by fighting fiercely to control everything. This approach makes most very vulnerable to the stress of being unable to control everything. They might even strike out against people and institutions who do not share their understanding.
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Special Threat 2: Continual Change
Change (potentially decreases free choice, safety & security, and certainty)
Change also threatens our spirit.
- Change is one of the few things in life that is constant. Nothing stays stagnant for ever. The law of entropy states that everything moves towards a state of disorder. It also says that it takes energy fight this change. This holds true in every aspect of life. Change is constant, if left unchecked it will create disorder and it takes energy to restore order.
- Continual change comes affects doctors in many ways, most of them are stressful. Some examples include changes in billing laws, changes in payment models, changes in employers, changes in computer systems, changes in technology used in patient care and changes in a physicians role in healthcare.
- These changes can threaten the feelings of safety and security and the need for certainty which can both damage the spirit
Tools for the Spirit
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Tool: Utilize Continual Change
Utilize Continual Change. Change is constant. It is a waste of time, energy and spirit to fight it. Below are four ways to approach change.
- Accept: First we must accept the fact that change is constant, then we must learn to accept the things we cannot change.
- Advantages: Change often brings many oppertunities and advantages. These can be obvious or subtle. It is important to know that even the obvious advantages change brings are usually invisible to people who are resisting the change. Resilient people are flexible and open to the opportunities change brings into their lives, even if born out of conflict. Always look for any new advantages the change brings.
- Active: Try to become proactive instead of reactive, don’t wait for change to roll over you like a storm. Don’t approach change with the attitude of “I hope to survive”. Instead make reasoned, positive choices in areas that you can control. Every change has asspect that can be controlled, find these and control them.
- Agent: The best way to influence change is to control it. Change is much easier to tolerate when you are the one driving it. To do this, become a change agent. Develope leadership skills, become politically active and put yourself at the table.
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Tool: Combat Loss of Control
Loss of control is attacks our spirit because it feels like loss of free choice. To combat this feeling think about the following
- You always have a choice: Doing nothing is a choice
- Any behavior you do after you are aware of it is a choice.
- Artificial boundaries make it hard to see choices.
- Several “bad options” does not equal “no options”
- No “perfect option” does not equal “no option”
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